Monday, May 17, 2010

Trust is what one need!!!


Every relation today needs trust! I have seen enough, one can say if they put themselves in my shoes. No no its not that I have been into many relation and learned something at the end of each, the fact is that I have not been into any relationship yet. But still observed many around me and so I can say that trust is what one need if they want a successful relationship. The ingredient of power in a romantic relationship is a dangerous thing, and causes many affiliation problems. It is widely experienced by both sexes. A relationship which truly comes from the heart cannot survive the control issues and it tears away at trust. How can one expect his partners to trust one another when he is trying to control the other? It's an effort to control something that one doesn't find lovable at all. The control is the stuff that always ends in “Break UP” because after all we are human beings packed with emotions.
I think that people who suffer from such situation should give sometime to themselves instead of being high on emotion and remembering the past that shattered them. I know it’s not that easy to do so, but one has to focus on the present than the past that went by breaking one’s trust that cannot be structure overnight. Trust has the power to hurt when one is in relation, when an important person violates a trust and harms the other in the process, trust doesn't just shrink back to the prior stage it goes away entirely.
Rumors an important element that breaks the trust, under different conditions, rumor can cause serious trust issues. Many relations have been broken up by false accusations. I know one boy who used trust issues to destroy a relation so he could have the girl it worked. Well, it isn't easy! Trust grows slowly and, if broken, heals more slowly. Relationship trust issues are complex and painful. With patience and love, though, it's usually possible to overcome distrust and grow a healthy, long-term relationship. Just imagine the day you can finally rest in each other's trust, fully able to be yourselves, knowing you're just the person the other one wants to be with.
If you really want to lesson problems in your relationship and build trust with your partner then let go of a need to control and find ways to be supportive of one another. The Day you get trust you’ll get Happiness in life!!!

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